A New Tool for Your Biggest Aspirations


Hi friends,

Most of us are carrying an aspiration that’s a little bigger than our current capacity. (And if you read last week's post, you know I am.)

The aspiration could be a project we’re making our way through. A decision that keeps circling back. A feeling that we’re meant to build something—or become someone—that requires more clarity, more challenge, or simply more companionship than life naturally provides.

And while I love the solitude of deep work, I’ve learned that meaningful work often needs a council.

Something steady. Something wise. Something that helps you see what you can’t yet see.

A while back, I wrote about creating a virtual advisory group—a practice that helped me navigate my own creative and strategic thresholds. If you missed that piece, here it is:
👉 On Creating a Virtual Advisory Group

That essay sparked so many conversations that I decided to make the idea real, usable, and accessible to everyone in The Pocket community.

So today, I’m sharing something new I built for readers of The Pocket:

The Pocket's Advisory Architect GPT

A custom virtual advisory group—designed around your goals, your temperament, and your growth edges.

You tell the GPT what you’re working toward. It helps you assemble a small circle of advisors: real thinkers, creators, operators, philosophers, even archetypes or mythic figures if that’s your style. Each brings a distinct lens—strategic, creative, grounding, visionary—and together they help you surface what actually matters.

A far cry from therapy, and a stiff arm's length from outsourcing your judgment. It’s something quieter: a way to see more clearly. A way to work with less noise and more intention.

If you'd like to try it, here it is:

👉 The Pocket Advisory Architect GPT
(Created exclusively for readers of The Pocket.)

Use it for decisions, creative projects, leadership challenges, or the murky middle of something you’re trying to grow into. Use it when you want gentle challenge or sharper clarity. Use it when you need a small circle of minds beside you.

Mostly: use it in the moments you would usually go alone.

As always, thank you for reading The Pocket, and for being the kind of person who builds meaning on purpose.

— Griff

P.S. If you use the GPT and it shapes something for you—a decision, a breakthrough, a piece of clarity—I’d genuinely love to hear about it.

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